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The fixes are described below, I offer to help if the emotional pain so intense that keeps me from thinking clearly be used. I'm always in the center my happy place again soon. Just letting go of the negativeEmotions, it clears my mind. This allows my creativity in football and I want to find the solution to the problem or the solution is. Just the mere fact to change my actions, my energy change and, therefore, I took a different result, and has always been for the better. This often leads to a chain reaction of good things – directing me a way I never thought it would investigate. This has happened so often that when I run into obstacles are nowis always a small part of me that goes "Ooh, I wonder what great adventure is just around the corner?".
So the first thing to do is to overcome your obstacles, solve all these negative emotions and find your happy place centered. Even if you feel like you can hear this is resolved quickly, it is necessary to take these feelings to override and force action. It 's just the steps that change the results. Apply "Mya" – Move Your Ass There were times I did notDesire to leave home or even out of bed – but with the help of a quick fix on me, I will always feel a thousand times better.
Although the quick-fix below is based on my passions and interests – apply these general ideas about your passions and interests and develop their hotfix 10 will help you quickly hit your happy place. If you do not have passions and interests, try these quick fixes to find the rightPassions or interests. Do not just what exactly on my list, brain storm and come up with their own ideas. Please use the worksheet at the end (Appendix A) for your quick-fix to write.
Start now – 10 hotfix
These are not in any way – you can do any combination of these several times a day, or at least once a day. Put these vary daily life and activities, so it becomes routine and not be bored.
1. Playing good musicAccording
• This just makes me want to dance freestyle, always brings a smile to my face and makes me feel carefree and light. Disco Abba and is great for me. Samba also. Anything with a large African-based rhythm. I stay away from Death Metal – that gives me a headache. I also like classical music – is quiet and lyrical, and puts me in a calm, peaceful state.
• Select the songs that once made you smile, move or reassured. Pandora.com is a free radio onInternet – to give one of your favorite songs, and songs you'll find the same type. Make several compilations: happy dance songs, peaceful relaxing songs, etc.
• If music is not your thing, go to the next action.
2. Make your favorite exercise, you sweat and your heart to pump for at least 20 minutes to 1 hour. The most important part is the sweating and the heart pumps. the body's natural endorphins released make you feel better. If you have a friend who ispositive, the practice of discussing with them, but not the problem. You just need negative energy is released. I recommend at least 2-3 times a week. I train every day.
• I'm Dancing – salsa, hustle, ballroom, Argentine tango, Swing, Freestyle, Hip-hop, samba, belly dancing. I always feel happy, excited and hit hard after dancing. The more I insisted that I stay to dance after. In my years, I would like every night until 04:00 clock 2-dance. I can be tired the nextDay, but I'm in a better mood, and in dealing with conflicts, create a better outcome if they are not emotionally tied to the problem. Benefits are another side that the dance has kept me healthy and fit and my dance technique is all that improves circulation. Now I am a coach of ballroom dancing.
• Other examples – horse riding, windsurfing, surfing, running, fast walking, cycling, kick boxing, spinning, skiing, snowboarding, aerobics, swimming, squash,Water polo, swimming, etc.
• If you are not an exercise in your life, you need to start immediately. Not only help you with your current situation is the long-term benefits to the health and psychological well-being huge. If you go regularly on at least 2-3 times a week of training, this will help you on your way to health and lasting happiness.
3. Take a class in your area of interest or passion – learning temporarily take your mind off your problems andPlease contact your routine.
• I like to learn, so they put me in a good mood. He also solved many of my problems. I take business, marketing, sales, management, personal development, dance or art lessons. In the past I golf, ski taken, drums, piano, surfing, windsurfing, framing, yoga, Pilates. If you are on limited funds, there are many free webinars / conference calls over the Internet. The other alternative is to learn from a book, CD or DVD youBorrow from the local library. My personal library of books on management, economics, marketing, sales, success, personal development, design, art, dance and biographies full of interesting people.
• I have signed for the training of teachers ballroom to reduce friction between my friend and me, when I taught ballroom. My teacher introduced me to his classes for beginners Ballroom after my first semester teaching and I graduated top of my class after 16 months. Now I sitLife coaching, social dance and art!
• If you are not sure you learn how to do it again. Remove your trust.
4. Teach someone about your experience / passion / interest
• I can not tell you how many times my students have literally through my door with gasps of the fallen "You can not believe that the day / week / month I had" and left with smiles on their faces after 2 hours of painting relaxed. Or they can be rejuvenated and ready to winWorld according to one of my groups or individual lessons dance lessons. In the case of beginners in the first place, I see the joy on their faces and the light in their eyes when they discover they can do something they never thought they could. E 'transformational grammar for them. When clients call or overwhelmed and confused, and I am able to calm her down, get happy, confident and armed with an action plan. Although I use a hard day back to help my students and clients and maintaining these positive emotionsI always raises and pulls at me.
• Even if I do not think you can teach, you should try. I used to afraid to ask questions in class and could not speak publicly until the age of 20 years. I suggest starting in a situation of 1:1 when it is new to you. You can start with a family member or friend. Someone who is supportive and takes care of you and needs your help. Then you can work your way to small groups. Who knows, this may lead to your career. Working in computerThe industry, the start-up forced me to speak on a regular basis for large and small groups of people across the Asia-Pacific region, Europe and the United States. My art and dance technique improved a lot to teach. At worst, you get the best of new in your field of expertise / passion / interest.
5. Read an inspiring book, a blog inspired, or watch a movie or television show inspired Biography.
• I like reading autobiographies and biographies of real people and as they grewabout their situation or adversity. Some people find this depressing, I find it stimulating. It 's like – "Well, if they get through this, I can." Some of my favorite books are:
"Wild Swans: Three Daughters of China" by Jung Chang,
"A long journey" by Rohinton Mistry,
"Stolen Lives" by Malika and Michele Fitoussi Oufkir,
"Daughter of destiny – the autobiography of Benazir Bhutto
"The Autobiography of Quincy Jones by QuincyJones,
"Jack: Straight from the Gut" by Jack Welch and John A Byrne
"The Power of One by Bryce Courtenay – Laws do not see the movie, the book. Although fiction, I really identified with the little boy alone. And many other books that do not take it when I moved around so much.
• I have the movie "Seabiscuit" beloved … I am, "Seabiscuit" – I did not fit, once was a cripple, not unlike any other, and probably doomed to failure. Biography Films & Showson television profiling successful businessmen, musicians, artists, athletes and world leaders have their eyes open and challenging – Warren Buffet, Oprah, Bill Gates, Sting, Jon Bon Jovi, Shania Twain, Jim Carrey, Christina Aguilera, Gandhi, Malcolm X, Ray Charles, Muhammad Ali, Tina Turner, Olga Korbut, Oksana Baiul, etc.
I • "The Millionaire Maker" Loral Lange book by Meier to solve the problem of my friend, I finished reading the book and signing up for their coaching services.My coach saw my personal experience in the field of transformation of life, my ability to teach others, leading me to adjust my life coach!
• The local library is a great source for books and films. Netflix.com is ideal for easy connection to the film. I buy my books on Amazon.com – it is a part used if you have limited resources.
6. Call or visit a friend
• Friends who have more problems than that – to make him / her feelbetter.
I have some friends in this category – I would not say what I'm going through. I just focus on them, they would laugh and tell them what a great mother / father / son / daughter or grand-parents and as if they were my parents or siblings or grandparents, I am so happy. Then I'm going to tell them how special. If you are in the midst of a crisis, I see what I can do to help. It 's amazing how quickly you get to see your problems, ifsomeone you care with life and death situations.
• Friends who are happy souls, can put things in perspective.
My friends, students, staff, confidence in my clients when they have problems – they are as happy as their soul. I feel good and adds to my happiness when I recall can put a smile on their face or provide some relief for their emotional pain. I ask especially in the grand scheme of things, when they were to die tomorrow, how important is thisPain / misfortune of all the wonderful things they have going in their lives over?
I have a dear friend who I call when I'm in the midst of the crisis in a relationship, and you can summarize and reflect on my confused thoughts into something coherent, I can take.
As I have always helped others, I have received a lot of help from me until I signed for my training program in the first place, life has been changed.
• Avoid making calls from friends who just stays in thisnegative loop. Do you like to hear your stories of hardship and misery for more stories from you to recognize what is your life sucks. And yet more evidence that the world is a cruel place, you can also store the throat and in the end it is now. OK I'm exaggerating, but you know what I'm talking about. These people offer no solutions – just want to indulge in doom and gloom.
• If you have friends, you will be in your long-term strategy for the happiness and prosperity.You can volunteer non-profit to help others less fortunate and happy to take a coach as a friend.
7. Go to a quiet place – this in mind or in reality
• I'm not good at meditation, but this technique works for me. I am happy to live in a quiet place, I can only in my garden, sit overlooking the canyon and do these breathing exercises – I left my head on my chest and I take a deep breath and exhale, I think I'm pushing out the negativeThe emotions that cause the clutches in my chest or stomach in knots. I think that this way of reducing the intense feelings. Then I replace it with thoughts of good things like how happy I am to have a computer at home, have my health to have good people in my life, a healthy mind, etc. This is an adaptation of Larry Crane technical issue. I discovered in my 40s and 'really made a difference. I grew up going to this – if I went into the process, the gynecologistlooked at me in shock and said it was gone! There were many other obstacles, which worked only for himself when I focused on the release of negative emotions around these issues. For example: I hate to drive and use up to 3-5 hours round trip times for the economy. With the release of these emotions through an incredible series of events offered, the owner of a study of local ballroom studio to teach me in his study, only 13 minutes from my house (which is near LosAngeles).
I do a breathing exercise changed with my art students – they like the way it dissolves immediately think of their problems and relax them. Some of my students to traffic in Los Angeles (still horrible) battle for my art class, so they are more stressed and baffled. Most of them jumping from their seats at this point and extend their arms in the air you breathe in then – I first, running to take a deep breathwhen you breathe out, I encourage them to shake, roll or stretch the muscles, usually in his head, neck, shoulders, arms, etc. Then take another deep breath and exhale, I have to press for the negative thoughts and fears In their minds, or come into his chest or abdomen. Then on the last deep breath, I thank them for it with me, I remember them as they are all beautiful people and how lucky we are to paint withtoday.
• Continue to listen to the sea and surf – that centers ever to me, it brings a sense of calm and makes me strong and powerful again. When my relationship fell apart when my uncle died when I was burned – just a few hours at sea, I was back on track.
• Go for a walk in nature. Try away from cars, technology and people. I find it very healing.
• If the funds get a massage. If only world leaderswould regularly receive massage well. Perhaps there is less fighting and more loving. I only know that when I was in my late 30's – boy did it help me with my stress.
• If you love animals, always a pet can help. Only you stroke your cat or dog is very calm and peaceful.
8. Create something
• Usually the color – I mean watercolors and start playing with colors. After a while ', take inspiration, and this process of creation is alwaysI feel better.
• Or the kitchen – and even better if I can cook and feed someone else. The sounds of someone to appreciate my cooking that make me smile. Do not do it if you have a weight problem – it will only further depressed.
• If I hurt my knee and could not come up, I started to sew the activities involved sitting in one place or cut from the ground. He taught me to sew and made clothes ball, my leg bent, when I danced to hide. Yes, I wentDance, even though I spent most of the seats. It distracted me from my painful knee and now I have 10 + new dance outfit!
• Start a journal – to write three good things that happened to you today. Do this every day. It can be as simple as a friend calls you on the phone. If the sun is out. This is good stuff. Or write down everything that you hear every day. It makes no sense simply a dump. Who knows, this may lead to your next career move -Scripture. That's how I started writing. I shed so many little stories unfinished in my computer and in several magazines. All times of great stress, anxiety, pain or shock generated.
• If you have never done anything, but more creative with a general interest, to go with him. If you do not know how to get started, purchase a how-to book or for a class of applications in woodworking, ceramics, art, blown glass, cooking, writing, piano, violin, bass, dance, etc. Sostarted in the painting – I woke up one day with this strong urge to paint with the brush of China in 2001. I went on the internet and found a Chinese painting class brush painted in San Francisco this Saturday for the first time. This guy was changing my life forever!
9. Expressing love and gratitude to your loved ones. If you have a spouse, children, family and friends who love you – reach out to them and tell them how much you love them and how much it means to you. Give them a hugor a kiss.
• I have no family, but I write e-mails to my closest friends at odd hours. It's usually too late to call. I tell them I'm thinking of them and I hope doing well. I thank them for their friendship, and tell them how special. If people who claim to be special, considered it more if you specify what are good or identify a specific event that highlights their talents: a great listener, patient, creative problem solver, great feelingHumor, etc.
• I have my friend for as long as I love him, what his talents are specials say. I get a hug and ask when I need it. That makes me feel better.
10. Take a trip somewhere completely opposite to that through – go if you were burned by the people, then in a third world country like Brazil or Cuba, where there are no happy people who care about each other, even if they are really poor. If you come from a completelyfrazzled situation – to go somewhere secluded and quiet, without a lot of people – the best known.
• If I left Oracle to start a bankrupt six months later, these six months have been so intense that it left me drained, numb and tired of bad people.
Instead of doing what I usually do in this situation – to update my resume and job search, I flew to Cancun, he met a friend of dance and explore the pyramids, fountains, caves and beautiful beaches. We found a placeTulum, two hours south of Cancun and stayed at a small hut on the beach. There was no electricity, the floor of the hut was sand. It costs almost nothing. This was the time of regeneration for me. We then flew to Miami for the biggest festival of Salsa in USA – Calle Ocho, and danced our asses for 1 week with 2 other friends dance. I returned to San Francisco with a TAN, it has lost over 10 pounds, a smile on my face and found a voice message from the President invited me to a new beginningin an interview. He put me to work as Director of Marketing. How cool was that!
• There was a time when I really dealing with people and immoral people who have taken advantage of my kind of nature useful burned. I started to lose my faith in humanity. I was in a deep depression, she would not eat, can not sleep, did not want to interact with someone. I was a bit 'a program of dance in Cuba and two weeks has changed our lives. Cuba had justhunger and the locals were so poor – food was hard to get, even if I had the money, there was nothing to buy in the shops a. But people never happier in my life. They were full of joy, laughter and love. Their wealth spread to us all foreigners – broke all of our many. What was clear to me then there was no money or material things to buy, their time was not spent in the search for money. Their time was spent together, laughing,Singing, dancing, talking, hugging, playing music or other things together. There is only one man in Cuba when I was with a group of Cuban dancers room when I walked on my own, would always call, "Come with us not to go alone." Their children are their national treasure – the children can walk everywhere and they are required, loved, nurtured and cared for by neighbors and strangers. Someone will always have children to take home with their parents at the end ofthe day. How wonderful is that?
• Other places that I have on offer an excellent solution to restore your spirit – Koh Chang in Thailand, Pulau Langkawi and Pulau Tioman in Malaysia, Morro de Sao Paulo, Brazil. These places are all cheap, remote and peaceful. I had a cottage on the beach facing the ocean for $ 9/night in Thailand and daily massages for $ 10/hr. I stay away from the hustle and expensive resorts. I was only busy places expensive when it was sponsored by myto work. But those peaceful – as the Kea Lani Maui Maui and Grand Wailea Resort When I'm in finance, so it may be expensive (for the incredible Spa – the rest of the place is too chaotic).
Not everyone is a long-term strategies for lasting happiness, but will help you out of your shock, despair, numbness, depression, paralysis, fear or frustration, and so is the release of negative emotions that tie in knotsLet your creativity and objectivity often kicks, obstacle / bad luck is not as insurmountable as it first appears and the solution is when your head is clear. Just for the simple fact, taking some action if the results … I'm not against you or repeatedly asking for a solution if your mind is not clear enough information to make a decision. Change your actions, overcoming negative thoughts and currentFeelings and that changes the result. Change your energy, you can win a different result. And often a good thing lead to another to another.
Exhibit A: Your "10 quick ways to happiness and prosperity"
Use this worksheet to develop their "10 quick fixes." Develop your interests and passions. If you do not have passions or interests, then try the quick fixes to find your own passions or interests. Do not limit yourself toWhat is on my list, brain storm and come up with their own ideas. Send them to me and I fill in a "Best of quick fixes."
It is any combination of these several times a day, or at least once a day. Do this every day, vary your tasks so that it is not boring.
1. Listen to good music at high volume Start Date :_________
Record the songs begin to dance and smile and make you feel calm and peaceful. Make a compilation. Pandora.com use for other similarSongs
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2. Exercise 30 minutes – 1 hour, sweat-heart pumping! Start Date :_________
The name of your firm (s): _____________________________________________
3. Take a class for your interest and passion Start Date :_________
Enter your interest / passion (s):________________________________________
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4. Teach someone your know-how / passion / interest start date: ____________
What do you do? ______________________________________________
Who will teach this? _________________________________________
5. Read inspiring books / blogs / Film Start Date: ____________
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6. Call a friend- Begin: ____________
Name of friend (s) that has more problems than they _____________________
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Friend's Name (s), is a wise soul happy _____________________________
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7. Go to a quiet start on site:____________
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8. Create some start date: ____________
What has been created in the past, when you go back in a child who was always a smile on your face and peace in your soul? What are 10 things in your life you are grateful,for?
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9. Express love and gratitude to your loved ones start date: ____________
List of their special characteristics: ___________________________________________
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10. Take a trip start date: ____________
I use my credit card for my purchases to earn frequent flyer miles soI am able to travel anywhere. Make sure you pay the full amount off every month!
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